Our monthly clinic visits stressed the importance of “nonmedical” issues, especially her early and continuing adverse life experiences. Validating her pain as “real” during each of our clinical encounters, I redirected the perception of her suffering from painful genital sensations and, instead, to her overwhelmingly severe adverse life events. Therefore, our attention shifted from “let us treat your pelvic organs” to “you hurt because of what has happened in your life, so let us treat this.” Within 2 visits, empathy in the face of chronic pain led to dramatic treatment success. At 6 months, she abruptly stopped taking opioids, and at 7 months she completed an intensive substance abuse treatment program, after access was delayed by her insurer and she had to endure a long wait list for a low-cost treatment program. With no coverage for individual counseling, she started attending a twice-per-week abuse victims group along with frequent Alcoholic Anonymous meetings. She separated from her husband and filed for divorce and began to share care of her children along with her mother. When I last saw her several months ago, she had only intermittently required a urinary catheter and has abstained from using opioids. Though she reports “just” 30% less pain intensity, she feels unequivocally improved. Her urologist still recommends bladder distention procedures, confusing the both of us, yet we remain skeptical that they are worth “the pain.”